When children tease one another
Quarrel, pinch one another is common daily children's matter that you can see in any family has 2 children an over. Mothers who stand this the most, desire if only they leave herself alone just one minute.
Before you want to hinder, the best thing is finding clearly nature of matter. Relying on that you will have method to treat logically instead of threat or subornation.
Tease cannot be given away and try to eliminate completely too. If your home doesn't happen fighting, honestly, you should not feel lucky from this. At that time you should think about case there is one child be command and the other is oppressed one.
Meanwhile, children of any age need also own enough decisiveness to express thinking of self and argue base on that thinking. And this is a good habit of child in future life. Therefore it can be said that quarrel (sometimes encloses violence) be the good and acceptable signal but in need limit.
Don't adjust immediately every crime by any child, because of rewarded nature of this action to the other. Children are agile to build a rear base on this, results in tease increases more and more even leave bad mark about bias of parent.
The best thing parents should encourage them find out the way to solve problem by themselves upon mind of each other control oneself. This is difficult to children but having difficulty just makes difference in upbringing children of each family.
Set up limit to fire alarm as well as thorny behaviors. You might divide with resolution the fighting-cocks into special places, if they themselves can find out agreeable solution.
Build cooperative and active relationship rely on unexpected planning. Making some of small plan suddenly such as assigning task of children help other child or help neighbors repair their small garden.that make children responsibility for sharing opinion and works in order to finish their task very well, it's though that establish solidarity of children.
You can propose family's days with requirement of every member help together to do something. This makes opened atmosphere, more knowing each other and the affection reserved for one another is the last beautiful gift which is wished the most.
Competition between children to each other should be encourage but within limit. Normally, children are easy to think oneself the most impression when they win in conflict with brothers and sisters, especially as if in some field they are the most remarkable.
However you should show your children to know that they are not yet complete in some aspect but perhaps it is strong point of others who lose the game. So children need to learn how to admit oneself weak points and recognize strong points of others, so that it makes spirit of picking up the good, the new but not local mind when children more develop afterwards.
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