Facing mistakes together

While making mistakes, everyone also wants to receive sympathy, share from husband (wife). So, you are always your friend, accompany with a half rise up after failure, and help them get balance and new success.

Be patient.

You can not be joyful when your husband (wife) fails. However, you should need to control your emotion. Patience is necessary for you in this situation. Waiting with open and normal manner. Your evenness and nature will be firm support for your half in difficult period.

Do not question, let them tell you their failure. After failure, they have blue and disappointed psychology. You should not make everything worse. Absolutely avoiding making your half think they are sinner and you are judge. Let your husband (wife) tell about their failure. If they can have ability to do that after a certain time, you can evoke them tell to you. Remembering that you need to have attitude as a friend to share confide. If you are not skillful and show immoderate impatience, you will meet negative reaction.

Absolutely no nagging, complaining

While your husband or wife fails, they do not admit that for everyone knowing. Your nagging and complaining only make him think: "next time if I'm died I never say anything". Your complaint only digs deeply his pride and disappointment without bringing better things.

Caring but not interrogating.

While your husband or wife tells about their unhappiness, listening and knowing the quiet on time. The teller's psychology always tells a little their mistakes, blame less or more for objective situation. Although you know clearly you should not interrogate or argue about that.

A caring even if it is small is necessary.

Caring your husband (wife) by your movements, gesture even thought trifling. It makes your husband (wife) get balance. A cup of hot tea, an overcoat in winter, sometime emotional gestures such as holding to kiss, messaging is also mind's restorative more than any trite and hollow words.

Should not be hurried to give experienced lesson or teaching.

Although you want to talk about your husband (wife)'s mistakes, you should repress. Such way of talking has opposite effects. You have much time if you want to make a suggestion, waiting till your half calmly and remembering delicate and gently will be easier to acquire.

Choosing right time and only mention once.

Certainly, after his or her subjective mistakes, it is necessary to show oppose attitude but you should choose right time to show that with definitive and determined opinion and only once. If you mention too much about that will create dislike for your husband (wife) and next time you never have chance to know honestly about their mistakes.