History of husband and wife
Humans do not lack rhetoric to praise love of husband and wife and not forget to refer to situations.flying plates, flying bowls to make accusations of family lives that are "at war". But in history, the words "husband and wife" did not appear early, at least from legal aspect. If we consider from legal aspect, Mrs Eva was only the lover not the official wife of Mr Adam.
In French, the word "couple" has appeared since the 12 th century to mention the living together of a man and a woman. This coincides with the appearance of religious weddings, relying on concept, marriage must be an agreement of both parties. It's clear that the concept "couple" that people refer to the animal world only connects closely to copulation, and then feeding young in a long time to maintain races.
According to the historian Claude Masset, it's unable to specify in which period of humans' history people held weddings, but weddings have certainly existed for a very long time. But people often get married with people in another clan so as to avoid the marriage between relatives in a family. In the 12 th century in Europe , weddings must have agreement of both parties, and broom and bride are considered to be equal. But until the 18 th century, the concept of husband and wife has not been clear yet. And since this century, the concept that love is the foundation of marriage appeared.
Psychologists order 5 forms of husband and wife relying on their interrelationship:
Quarrelsome couple: It seems that they have to .quarrel with each other to find that love is priceless. Quarrels increase excitement. They find equality in quarrels. If their family life is so smooth, they feel bored.
Pygmalion couple: According to Chypre Island 's mythology, the King Pygmalion himself carved a very beautiful statue and then he was so crazy about ... it that he begged God for the statue bearing him a child.
Passionate couple: From the love story of Tristan and Iseut to unfortunate couple in the film "Titanic", everybody likes this passionate love. The couple mixes together to become one, loves each other without caring about time and everybody all around.
Combined couple: Husband and wife of this type can move heaven and earth, perform unbelievable wonders in case both of them live separately. To achieve that result, they have to respect each other's personalities and improve ability to work in all fields.
Unequal couple: This is a condescending couple, the level of their love is not equal.
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