Bringing more sexual pleasure, men or women
 Human beings' sexual behavior has a dual function, both producing and bringing sexual pleasure. Married couples after having a number of expected children take sexual intercourse for pleasure. As a result, the later one, bringing sexual pleasure is more important.
Do not take consideration who will bring more
In ancient times, the fact that who brought more sexual pleasure was referred to. Greek myths said that Zeus and Hera asked Tiresias, a hermaphrodite, about the diving of sexual pleasure at men and women and was replied that if this pleasure had been divided into 10 parts, women would have taken 9 whereas only 1 for men. This implied that women were so dangerous.
The congregation uttered a curse upon women that they give birth to sin and men died because of women. Traps were fiercer than death as women's hearts were claws and their arms were tie.
It was this belief that denied and despised female sexual desire for a long time. George Sand, a female French writer (1804-1876), described the 19 th Century's women's characteristics in their sexual intercourse with husbands. It was only fierce, passiveness and durability. The conducts women in this century must keep were working, saving and oblivion of physical desire. Sexual desire was then just for men while women were obliged to sacrifice, to bear and to extinguish all sexual desire.
The predominance of female sexual pleasure
Sexual desire brings pleasure longing for everlasting but never satisfied, only reaching the peak of feelings could bring satisfaction. The areas producing sexual pleasure are distributed wholly on the body, both in men and women. Excluding sex organ, the others such as lips, cheeks, nape, the inside of thigh and hands. all bring a pleasure when being caressed, massaged. However, sexual pleasure is distributed in women more than those in men.
Besides sexual pleasure at vagina having been known long ago, in recent decades it has been found that women have the G point, which can produce sexual pleasure. It was named G as Ernest Grafenberg, the first person described the phenomenon like the ejaculation at women in 1950.
In fact, the G is not a point but an area. It is the area preserve 1/3 the outside of the upper of vagina, at which some glands cover urethra (also named spongy area of urethra). This area once is stimulated then bleeding and creates a pleasure. However, sexual pleasure at the G point can be different at each person. Women can have sexual pleasure continually while men can not.
Should it be made a comparison?
Although men do not have the G point and the other areas producing sexual pleasure as many as women do, it is not evident that men are less warm than women. Who is better than whom? Is it important? Enjoying sexual desire like having lunch, 1 or 3 bowls is only the quantity but the feeling of good taste and satisfaction are the same. Therefore, the couple do learn how to conquer each other both in physics and in mental by positive life way and good manners. Sexual skill is just a supporting means of love.
If we insist on the areas of sexual pleasure it may give a misunderstanding that these areas as a piano's keys. They will produce sound whenever being touched. In reality, the sexual feelings strong or vague depend on the thrill of heart and the judgment of mind.
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