Communication skill with people of the different sex
Not that only girls are gentle, mild and have knowledge who will get fondness of young men. However, it will be difficult to find a partner if you express a strength excessively and your hunger for success.
If you feel awkward with your above situation, please refer some the following requests:
Reconsidering that you are an unattractive person or not
Should be clever to ask male friends and female friends about this matter. If it is true like that, you need to pay attention to the communication skill with the people around you.
Unspoken to the field of feelings, only in relationship with the people around you, with the hunger for success you want to tread on necks of others and have a dry voice, which are "unattractive" points to make sympathy for others difficultly. The content of conversation is dry, like to talk about work or uninspired subjects, add an imposition, no wanting to listen others to speak.will make even people of the same sex feel insipid, unspoken to people of the different sex.
Paying attention to the speaking skill
When speaking, needing to pay attention to the action, the gesture according to words of two sides, to lodge a timely idea and pay attention to listen.
A conversation is not a contest. Needing to have a private idea, but no being hungry for success, to avoid for competition.
When speaking to unclose people, needing to select comfortable, easy subjects which are in the daily life. To avoid topics which deepen one's professional knowledge or political topics, topics contain religion with a serious way.
When having a fresh acquainted relationship, while exchanging , needing to pay special attention to listen ideas of dialogists and prove to respect them, do not be sententious, direct and force listeners to follow your opinion.
Men like women very much who are naïve and like to rely on others - This conception is error. Because women have the character of self-control, independence, know thought, have political opinion, have a strong attractive force and find objects more easily.
If the relationship with the people around you is good, but only the sentimental relationship is still difficult, need to adjust on the basis of un-influence to self-respect such as: Speaking more gently, voice goes up and down timely, paying attention to the attitude of conversation and the skill.Specially, need to pay attention to make up, in order to attract and cause attention.
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