Undersexed is not only the men problem
To the women, sexual desire weakening is broadly called as frigidity, expressed by frightened of sexual behaviors, lacking of or absolutely no ecstasy in sexual relations.
Frigidity is too common in the modern days. According to doctor Bie Zin, chief of French Sexual Advisory Bureau, one thirds of French women are frigidity, in which, 72% of schoolmistresses unmindful of couple sexual intercourses, and two thirds of them (the rest of French women) confessed that they rarely be satisfied in sex. By the way, they have sex due to the love to attend their men desires, not their own passion.
Similarly to the men's impotence, frigidity has a lot of levels or ranks, from fully physiological failures to the delicate symptoms of "physiological violation", in some ways, so that the feminine is seemed to lose all of sexual desires and the women's sexual organs existence.
According to some sexologists, frigidity is classified into 5 typical categories: the absolutely not or least sexual desired group; the psychological frigid group (the group of women terrified of the intercourses); the group of women whose sexual desires are rolled back due to diseases, life earnings, or the addictive interest in sport and arts; the group of women frigid due to men's premature ejaculation; or the group of women frigid due to their own characters (the status of not achieving the orgasm with the formal sexual behaviors can be long lasted, if the appropriate sexual behaviors are still not applied in anyways).
The roots of frigidity are various, but there are two essential factors: diseases and mentality. The most common symptoms of frigidity can be counted as the lack of feminine hormones (in the pre - menopause period), generally called as oestrogene, or the declination of testosterone. By the way, that root can be removed successfully due to hormones compensation in any ways. More out of those reasons, the gynecological diseases, urinary system inflammations, diabetics and the congenital malformations also badly affect to sexual desires.
In the accordance with Doctor Nagub Riad, a specialist in sociology and pathogenesis, the reasons of frigidity are the congenital malformations of vagina (such as too tiny or short vaginas) at firstly, and of clitoris (such as too small, too high - located, or too thick covered clitorises) as the next one, so that the probability of sexual passion feedbacks is too low. Those symptoms can be eliminated due to the men aids and aims in overcoming those. Otherwise, in the cases of women threatened by the gynecological diseases, the urinary system inflammation, and diabetics, the sexual passions could be survived soon if those diseases were removed completely.
In the other hands, the psychological roots are very complicated and diversified. Many women are haunted by the impression of incapable of satisfying their love-mates. While the others are sinfully tormented by the sexual accidents in the past, they already lose the passions due to those painful memories when having sex. It is not the minority of women mind - affected by religions and admonitions about the necessity of quelling the orgasm in sex relations.
In some cases, women frigidity can cause from their husbands or love-mates bad habits, such as alcoholism, drug addiction, gambling, and etc., or their frosty or adultery. Furthermore, the negative memories about men in the past, caused by a strict old teacher, or a rude father, or being violated by the bad, will turn into the utmost panics about men. The psychologists must find out those causes to free them or their mind from the burden of the past shadow completely to remove the frigidity.
Frigidity can be fully removed by the knowledge and the right attitude about its problems of the a couple. The hastiness, testy feedbacks and depression are the taboo to the males, in the contrarily, it is essential to sympathize and actively helps their wives or love-mates overcoming those unwelcome symptoms.
Following the researches, it was proved that the undersexed problems of the both sexes, males impotence and females frigid, regardless of the congenital malformations, could be cured with the important roles of the love-mates aids and aims. If the both of a couple give their soul and hearts to each other, that status will not be a serious problem any more as soon as possible. To achieve the good results, a couple must strictly obey the advisory of majored doctors and psychological specialists.
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