Nine complexes that need to be overcome
 Many people self-consider that they are not charming talkers, hence all their meetings are dull, particularly when talk face-to-face with "dream lovers". Sharing and considerateness in living style are factors that make the charm. Self-confidence also makes half of the charm.
Self-confidence not only brings you misery, but it also directly affects your own success. Come out of your shell!
Life is full of thousands of things such as: as a result of complex, I let the love go; as a result of unconfidence, I lost the chance of promotion. Below are complex types that many people acquire. To overcome, be brave to look straight at it:
Appearance complex: Women are usually unhappy with this feeling more than men. Few white hairs, some wrinkle, acne skin, bad teeth.all can make them lose their minds.
Treatment: Go to a dental clinic to repair enamel. Visit beauty saloon for skin care. Cleverer, you can hide your appearance's shortcomings by cosmetic and clothes. Don't forget: "Silk makes a beautiful woman".
Standard complex: No education, having no "red certificate" under the belt, many people have a huge "inferiority complex". In the organization, although they are treated unfairly, they don't dare to fight. In front of graduates or professionals they are as quiet as a mouse.
Treatment: Certificates are not a measure of people's value. The statement: "A good worker is better than a good teacher" will remind you to fight.
Position complex: You are just only a poor architect or a trivial staff. You live among luxurious people with so many servants.
Treatment: Improve your professions devote fully for your organization, then you will be highly appreciated by the boss and have promotional chances.
Inferior jobs such as rickshaw puller, cleaner, business of minor importance. When asked about their jobs, many people often avoid answers.
Treatment: No-one prevents you from striving for a better job than at the moment. Set for yourself objectives and do your best to reach them.
Origin complex: You were born in a purely farmer family. You live in a poor hamlet or are you from a province coming here to settle yourself up in business, or is your family poor?
Treatment: No-one can choose his place of birth. Poor but honest, hard-working, you still can be loved.
Hobby complex: You cannot "digest" classical music, you only like listening to pop music. You are an amateur about painting schools, you only like Dong Ho pictures on red paper.
Treatment: Each person's hobbies are different. What important is you are happy with that. Moreover, reading books is one way to improve your knowledge and aesthetics style.
Esthetic sense complex: Just because someone criticizes things you have just bought, your excitement disappears. You can throw all of them away to buy "esthetic" things.
Treatment: When someone criticizes, tell them to list out specifically the bad sides to learn experience.
Income complex: Fear telling the truth or try to overstate their salary to gain other's respect.
Treatment: Don't think that high income will increase your value. The best way is to tell the truth or deny answering such impolite question.
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