Ten secrets to succeed in life
 10% of life is what will happen to you, 90% of remain is your reaction to things happen to you. Considering the following example.
You are having breakfast with your family, your daughter pour coffee to your shirt. This happens suddenly, not controllable. The following things are your reaction depends on your decision. You scold her. She cries. You blame your wife that she put the cup of coffee near the edge of table. Both scold each other for a while. You are boomingly to go up stairs when you return, your daughter still cry, have not had breakfast yet. She misses the bus to school. Your wife is hurried to work. You step quickly to car, take your daughter to school. Afraid of being late, you drive over the permitted speed. After being hard fine, you also take your daughter 15 minutes late. She run quickly to class and is in time to say goodbye to you. You come to office 20 minutes late and leave the briefcase at home. Your day begin terrible. Everything is getting bad and bad.
In the evening, you are gloom when returning home to feel your children and wife not joyful waiting and welcoming you. Why do you have a gloom day?
- Coffee?
- Your daughter?
- Police?
- Yourself?
D is right answer. You do not own 90 right of reaction. Your reaction in 5 minutes created an unhappy day. You can react in another way when cup of coffee is poured, your daughter cry, you can tell her: "never mind, you should be careful next time". You gentle go up stair to change clothes and take your briefcase, go up stair, take your daughter to car, kiss your wife. You come to the office 5 minutes soon and good morning to your colleagues, maybe your boss praises you due to an effective day.
Your reaction is important. The sudden things only occupy 10% of decision but your reactions occupy 90% of it. Remembering and applying the secrets 9/1 for daily happening things, you will feel your life better.
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