MODERN FASHION WITH OFFHAND MANNERS
 Many women dress smartly, but they are still embarrassed in public. For example, she does not know where she should put her hands on. Or she only stands still without keeping a correct posture.
Bad and good habits appeared from her childhood. When she grows up and becomes rich people, both habits will still exist unless she intentionally conceals the bad ones.
We can easily meet a beautiful woman wearing vest, high heels, her hair smooth and wavy, carrying her leather bag, driving her own car, and having breakfasts at luxurious places where polite people usually present. However, she is still embarrassed in public. Facing strange people, she does not know where she should put her hands on. In addition, after opening a door of an expensive car, putting her legs or her head in first makes her feel strained. Besides, there are a lot of bad habits to be noticed by her colleagues, especially foreigners.
Moving:
Many women often swing their arms unsteadily and walk with their heads a little bent forward or make sounds from high heels, which disgust other people. When standing in front of strangers, they let their legs splay or tangle. Working clothes are useless if a woman moves correctly. In spite of wearing clothes or skirt, always remember to straighten legs. If she feels weary in her legs, keep one leg straighten, and loose the other.
Sitting:
When driving, most of them put their heads and legs in, and then they lose a few moments to sit in front of steering wheel correctly. Sitting on an armchair in front of strangers, they are embarrassed and cross their legs although they are wearing skirts.
In sitting rooms, it is better to sit a little lean (not at right angle to the face of the chair) with straight back and keep legs close. In cars, sit on the left of the chair, put legs at the same time, and then let the body inch in the middle of the chair. When getting out the car, do vice versa. This method is suitable for women wearing skirts.
Where should they put their hands on?
When talking to strangers, they do not know what the function of their hands is. Some sway theirs hand back and forth, some play with the buttons, some roll their hair, and others put hands into their pockets. These attitudes express women's embarrassment and lack of self-confidence. Sometimes, they can use their hands to express their emotions. 10 fingers knit together in front of the abdomen but not too close. In case they have handbags, holding them is the most convenient.
The worst postures:
Touch the interlocutor constantly or touch his/her shoulders, correct the man's ties when talking.
Bow and play with rings, buttons, hair constantly when talking.
Stand around but their backs in front of others.
Sometimes shrug shoulders.
Laugh noisily in quiet places
Pull out grey hair in front of company's guests
Unacceptable postures:
Talk and point at interlocutor at the same time
Stand and bend one leg to cuffs
Bang the door when going out of the room
Use comb to turn the page of magazines
Use nails instead of toothpicks.
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