Strategy for mothers near to twin
If having twins, you need to help from the outside in the first weeks when your babies have just born. So you should plan if possible.
You can receive help from people you trust and live in peace such as: first born child, relatives parents, friends, neighbors, baby-sit .can learn about some services
Besides, if having twins, you need:
Taking a rest: First months after giving birth seem so long because "activities schedule's your children make you sleep inadequate. Should rest any time when you can. You can cover your ears to sleep while the other cares your children. Your house may not be clean before you have babies but trying to forget. Should remember if you rest much more you have ability to care your babies and yourself better.
Organizing your house: before giving a birth, you need to organize again your house to welcome your babies. Arranging babies' clothes and devices in right place where you intend to use. Arrange a place babies sit safe each other, an easy moving stroller or a pushing stroller is lined by pillows; floor is covered by blanket or somewhere near cage's door. The simpler your house and clothes are the best you have.
Making schedule: everybody is easier to help you if they see your schedule. You should make list of things you do everyday and glue on the wall. When your friends come to help, you suggest them:
Come on baby bath's time
Help you meal's time, feeding a baby
Clean the kitchen
Prepare the dinner or warm up frozen meat.
Do shopping or odds jobs.
Take babies outside.
Caring babies when you are sleeping and if you do not feel comfortable stop everything and take your babies a walk. Pure atmosphere make you feel comfortable.
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